Politeness Theory ¶
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Politeness theory (PT) explains how and why individuals try to promote, protect, or save face, especially when embarrassing or shameful situations arise unexpectedly.
Goffman's first essay, “On Face-work, focused on the concept of face, which is the positive image of self that individuals have when interacting with others. Goffman believed that face “as a sociological construct of interaction, is neither inherent in nor permanent aspect of the person”.[5] Once an individual gives out a positive self image of themselves to others they then feel a need to keep or live up to that set image.
Assumptions ¶
- Face
- All individuals are concerned with maintaining face (Brown & Levinson, 1978, 1987).
- Face refers to the desired self-image that an individual wishes to present to others; face also includes the recognition that one's interactional partners have face-needs of their own.
Positive and negative face - All individuals are concerned with maintaining face (Brown & Levinson, 1978, 1987).
- Positive face are a person's need to be liked, appreciated, and admired by selected persons. Therefore, maintaining positive face may include one's efforts to ensure that the significant others continue to view him/her in an affirming fashion.
- Negative face assumes a person's desire to act freely, without constraints or imposition from others.
- Rational and goal oriented nature of human being
- Human beings are rational and goal oriented with respect to achieving face needs (Brown & Levinson, 1978, 1987). Everyone's face depends upon everyone else's face being maintained. Therefore, one's decision in interactions with others often uphold this mutual construction of face.
- Human beings are rational and goal oriented with respect to achieving face needs (Brown & Levinson, 1978, 1987). Everyone's face depends upon everyone else's face being maintained. Therefore, one's decision in interactions with others often uphold this mutual construction of face.
- Face threatening acts
- Human being's rationale guide them to interact with others for mutual respects (face-saving), some behaviors are fundamentally face threatening. These face-threatening acts include common behaviors such as apologies, compliments, criticisms, requests, and threats (Craig, Tracy, & Spisak, 1993).
- Human being's rationale guide them to interact with others for mutual respects (face-saving), some behaviors are fundamentally face threatening. These face-threatening acts include common behaviors such as apologies, compliments, criticisms, requests, and threats (Craig, Tracy, & Spisak, 1993).
Preserving face ¶
To create and maintain face, ones use facework -- specific messages that thwart or minimize face-threatening acts (FTAs).
In addition to the above four, choosing FTAs with a different approaches may involve many factors: 1) understanding both positive and negative face, 2) understanding cultural differences or subtlety, 3) understanding the nature of relationship, and 4) understanding the communication partner's characteristics.
- Preventive facework
- Preventive facework means one's acts to avert, avoid FTAs.
- e.g., Avoiding certain topics, changing the subject, or pretending not to notice the occurrence of an !FTA, etc.
- Preventive facework means one's acts to avert, avoid FTAs.
- Corrective facework
- Messages of which intention is to restore one's own or others' facework.
- e.g., Use of strategies such as humor, apologies, accounts or explanation of inappropriate actions and behaviors, and physical remediation for the damage of FTAs.
- Messages of which intention is to restore one's own or others' facework.
- Conflict between positive and negative facework
- When your desire to appear unencumbered (having a sort of non-attractive charisma) outweighs your desire to be liked, you might need to engage in a face-threatening act.
- When your desire to appear unencumbered (having a sort of non-attractive charisma) outweighs your desire to be liked, you might need to engage in a face-threatening act.
- Use of five strategies in one's facework
- Avoidance: people may choose not to communicate in order to save their or their communication partner's face.
- Going off record: One may subtly hint or indirectly mention the face-threatening topic or situation. Such strategy (hints and indirect mention) leave the message open to interpretation; hence, minimizing face threat (while achieving what the person wants).
- Negative politeness: Speakers makes an effort to recognize the other's negative face needs -- the receiver's need of freedom and lack of restraint.
I am so sorry to ask, but I need a huge favor. I know this is last minute, and I really hate to be such a pain, but could you cover my shift this weekend? I know this is really inconvenient and I wouldn't ask if it weren't really important. . . .
This statement is my acknowledging the other's discomfort and potentiol restriction while still mangaging a sort of face-threatening act.
- Avoidance: people may choose not to communicate in order to save their or their communication partner's face.
- Positive politeness: The speaker emphasizes the receiver's need for positive face -- the need to be liked. Usually flattery and compliments are involved in the communication. One is camouflage one's face-threatening behavior with flattery and compliments.
Bill, you are such a reliable colleague, and os well-respected. I feel like I can really count on you. Would you cover my weekend shift?
- Bald on record: The speaker has no concern for others' face; simply commits the FTA in order to achieve his/her goal.
Bill, cover my weekend shift.
| Consideration | Prediction |
| Social distance | If someone has more prestige than you (someone with an impressive title or a great deal of money), you will be more polite; if someone hold little or no prestige over you, you need not be so polite. |
| Power | If someone has power over you (your boss, or even your auto mechanic if your car broke down), you will be more polite. |
| Risk | If what you are going to say has a high chance of hurting someone, you will be more polite. |









